lex. chicago. i enjoy star trek, sga, nail art, lotr, sci-fi, bad fashion, shitty music, and all sorts of geektastic shit. if you're going to complain about any of the following, do yourself a favor and don't follow.

27th May 2011

Post with 26 notes

i’d also like to tack on to the last post that just because a girl wears a dress/heels/skirt/or just attempts to look attractive in general at a show doesn’t mean she’s a fucking slut/trying to get with a band guy/etc. this may come as a shock, but guess what? some girls like to dress up sometimes. some girls like to dress up all the time. i wear heels or wedges all the fucking time, these days. when i go out, when i go to the store, when i walk the fucking dog. and guess what? i’m allowed to do that! and i’m especially allowed to do that without some fifteen year old girl side-eyeing me and calling me a slut as i pass by at a show whilst giggling to her friends(oh yeah, that’s happened, i can hear you you fucking idiots). i don’t give a shit that you’re wearing jeans and a t-shirt and no makeup, why do you give a shit about what i’m wearing? i’ve more than paid my dues in the pit, i have scars to prove it. don’t assume. i wish girls would focus less on slut-shaming each other and more on, oh, i don’t know, enjoying the band you paid to see.


Tagged: this has been a post.yepdone

  1. confettidancefloor said: Theres definitely a line between dressing and dressing like a slut on purpose at a show. One can usually distinguish between the two, and if you can’t you haven’t been going to shows long enough. No issues with dresses or heels to me.
  2. meganrockstar reblogged this from melodiesintheair and added:
    slut-shaming. Everyone is guilty of saying something about...those comments are...
  3. melodiesintheair reblogged this from attackedastoria and added:
    yeah, it’s definitely a huge problem in general. i like when you get preachy as hell. especially about shows. it’s...
  4. attackedastoria reblogged this from melodiesintheair and added:
    See, I respect you for owning up to that and trying to change it. I think it’s a problem a lot of girls have, not just...
  5. dimblethum reblogged this from melodiesintheair
  6. mountainmover reblogged this from attackedastoria and added:
    fucking amen. Also...pit. I’ve gone...dress with...
  7. captainunderpantz said: I like looking nice when I go to shows. The only time I have a problem with it is when the girls are just dressed up to throw themselves shamelessly at band members. Makes me want to vomit a little. Other than that, have at it
  8. thirstyforerika said: yeah i love wearing heels. i like feeling tall lol idk what their problems are heels were made to be worn so yeah
  9. attackedastoria posted this